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Time for a million more "a trans person peed here and nothing bad happened" stickers, I think.

I think even cis allies should be leaving them in all the public toilets they use at this point because it'll be true even if they're not the ones making it true.

I've seen some good disability solidarity regarding bathrooms: people saying "yeah get yourselves a RADAR key, I don't mind waiting to pee if this is what it takes to keep yourself safe" and things like that.

I've seen the Reasonable Access advice about asserting yourself during disability discrimination shared as also being relevant to gender discrimination.

And the Disability Rights UK statement on the Supreme Court ruling made me want to stand up and cheer...not least because they got it out almost immediately afterwards; a lot of people were feeling raw and vulnerable and it really helped to have this already out there. I've always thought that the social model applies to trans people in a similar way to how it applies to disability -- the suffering isn't essential, the barriers are put there by society -- and it's great to see those parallels highlighted.

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Date: 2025-04-25 04:48 pm (UTC)
otter: (Default)
From: [personal profile] otter
Where do I get those stickers?

NerdyKeppie

Date: 2025-04-25 07:23 pm (UTC)
jesse_the_k: Those words with glammed-up Alan Cummings (Drama queen)
From: [personal profile] jesse_the_k

is one place

https://nerdykeppie.com/products/a-trans-person-peed-here-stickers; I saw quite a few on Etsy & eBay, but I can't attest whether these are trans people doing the selling.

Re: NerdyKeppie

Date: 2025-04-25 10:24 pm (UTC)
otter: (Default)
From: [personal profile] otter
Thank you. I just spent 15 minutes on that site, and writing down things I might embroider for my backpack. I have an embroidery machine I rarely use. And I ordered some stickers for those rare occasions I leave the house.

Re: NerdyKeppie

Date: 2025-04-26 06:24 pm (UTC)
otter: (Default)
From: [personal profile] otter
I would embroider patches to then sew onto my back pack. If I were to build a backpack from scratch, I could embroider on the flat pieces before assembly.

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Date: 2025-04-25 07:22 pm (UTC)
jesse_the_k: Large exclamation point inside shiny red ruffled circle (big bang)
From: [personal profile] jesse_the_k

The Reasonable Access site is A++++.

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Date: 2025-04-25 10:11 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] barakta
Thank you (I'm the author of 90% of the Reasonable Access website content and one of the 3 founder-trustees of the org which is very quiet due to crip-time and crip-spoons but the website is something I'm proud of as it helps people while costing us limited spoons).

I am quite proud of it (although have spotted more errors I need to fix, mostly capitalisation fails on linked-from pages).

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Date: 2025-04-25 10:27 pm (UTC)
otter: (Default)
From: [personal profile] otter
That site is definitely something to be proud of!! First I've heard of it. Will share along the way.

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Date: 2025-04-25 10:31 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] barakta
It's pretty UK law focused but a lot of the non-law bits +/- UK culture are pretty transferrable for disability and indeed trans kinds of discrim. I suspect it's less helpful for things like racism including Gypsy, Roma and Traveller (GRT) racism or sexual harassment, but that's OK. It was aimed at one thing and any expandability is a bonus or stretch achievement.

We compiled it after comparing various experiences of challenging discrim and I basically tried to distill it into something with structure and coherent and then think "how much is race/class/gender/impairment related privilege/disadvantage" cos I'm acutely aware disabled people of colour have very different experiences I can't speak to.

We figure if more people start challenging shit up the different options, the people dumping shit on us might stop doing it, or do it a bit less cos we suddenly make it hard and not worth their while. There's CONSEQUENCES!

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Date: 2025-04-25 11:33 pm (UTC)
otter: (Default)
From: [personal profile] otter
there are consequences. I got a positive comment on my back pack today. It has a bunch of buttons, and a big ANTI-BIGOT patch.

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Date: 2025-04-28 04:58 pm (UTC)
barakta: (Default)
From: [personal profile] barakta
I love it when I get to have patches/badges and be seen. Before Covid times I had some B with the T and another queer badge and was working with a young trans student. I was double checking their name/pronouns cos there was a mix of names/pronouns in the paperwork and I showed them my badges which were new that week as a way to say "you're safe here", esp cos there was a family member with them misgendering/misnaming them throughout (which I stayed out of, cos honestly not my business to get involved but was horrid).

My former colleague who is trans used to have a "Some people are trans get over it" poster in her office in her last job. When she transitioned IN that job, she decided not to announce it, but would explain if people were confused or asked outright as she'd been given the choice by decent managers (some who were queer). Students never remember our names properly anyway, so it's less of a deal and it's not relevant. And of course queer students clocked it right away and would ask and know they were 'with safe people'. The poster was just an extra as often students didn't even notice my colleague was trans despite her being 6'3" which I attribute to her excellent ladycolleagues who helped her get really lovely clothes (former colleague is blind, so needed support with that). We used to laugh about how I was not the clothes-advising type of woman, but I was pleased she had shopping and clothes people around her when she needed it.

By living, we get to be activists, and that's useful!

I've never seen a resource like it

Date: 2025-04-26 10:52 pm (UTC)
jesse_the_k: Big cheryl haworth deadlifts under Olympic Rings (cheryl wins olympic gold)
From: [personal profile] jesse_the_k

...and I'm sure it's helpful.

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Date: 2025-04-26 06:31 pm (UTC)
otter: (Default)
From: [personal profile] otter
That's one of the most dangerously ridiculous things I've read in a long time. Even 40 years ago in uni, I was learning about all the many varieties of intersex people. This horrible thing doesn't even acknowledge that reality. On top of being incredibly bigoted.

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Date: 2025-04-28 05:46 pm (UTC)
barakta: (Default)
From: [personal profile] barakta
The EHRC are a danger to all Equalities. I find the idea of our equalities body going against one of the 9 groups they're setup to protect to be DEEPLY worrying. They should never have allowed board appointability by government and I think we should have kept different bodies for different attributes cos the EHRC has actively hated on trans people and outright neglected disableds and have a string of employment claims by former staff of colour. The old disability rights watchdog was much better.

In case useful, Stephen Whittle and some other trans activists have written some template guides/letters for schools universities and workplaces at https://drive.google.com/drive/mobile/folders/1fO6bSXBmYOCr4GFQO1bZv5l40wkSNesi?pli=1. It does predate the EHRC shit-guidance so they may get updated and there's nothing on healthcare.

The two main arguments I'd use are data protection and the Goodwin case in 2002:
* Data Protection European Court of Human Rights article by an Irishman https://www.thegist.ie/the-gist-trans-rights-are-data-rights/ (much colonialist Irish snark about teh Brits which we deserve).
* Goodwin which was the case that mandated the Gender Recognition Act anyway

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Date: 2025-04-28 07:44 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] barakta
I need to read the EHRC guidance, the shitty judgment and reread Jess's FAQ.

My concern is employers/services will just ban trans folk cos they think they have to. I think activism we need to do is getting employers/services to reply to the consultation to point out it's unworkable to police people's gender and an overstep.

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Date: 2025-04-30 03:16 am (UTC)
silveradept: A kodama with a trombone. The trombone is playing music, even though it is held in a rest position (Default)
From: [personal profile] silveradept
That's a good amount of solidarity there, and that's nice to have groups working together, rather than them participating in the belief that these groups don't have any reason to work together.

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