the cosmolinguist ([personal profile] cosmolinguist) wrote2025-05-27 06:29 pm

Stress bucket

I introduced my counselor to the "stress bucket" metaphor today.

Some of you may remember it was a Gary thing. I described it here:

The stress bucket is a metaphor about a bucket with a little hole in the bottom. Stress fills up the bucket. The little hole gradually empties it. We learned about what things are good for emptying a dog's stress bucket quicker and also how long the effects of an overflowing stress bucket can hang around.

It immediately made sense to me as someone with chronic anxiety, so while we carried on using it about Gary (it was always so useful), I apply it to myself too. And when my counselor was getting tangled in some other metaphors that reminded me of this, I told it to her. She seemed to really like it and extending the metaphor was useful for us during the whole conversation.

My good little dog, still helping out my brain even now.

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[personal profile] otter 2025-05-27 06:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Good little Gary
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[personal profile] angelofthenorth 2025-05-27 07:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I love the images that we use of buckets - I ought to collect them together in a post.
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[personal profile] barakta 2025-05-27 08:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I have used "your" stress bucket/jug analogy with students who describe anxiety and I'm trying to give practical advice so they can engage with studies while encouraging them to get proper MH help.
silveradept: A kodama with a trombone. The trombone is playing music, even though it is held in a rest position (Default)

[personal profile] silveradept 2025-05-27 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Good dog. Useful concept for humans as well as Gary, even past Gary.
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[personal profile] lagertha_the_warrior 2025-05-28 10:14 am (UTC)(link)
This is a great analogy. I'm going to use it for dealing with my own anxiety. Thanks!
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[personal profile] jesse_the_k 2025-05-28 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)

Ahhhhh.

They live forever in our hearts.